{"id":6063,"date":"2012-03-12T13:48:37","date_gmt":"2012-03-12T20:48:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/osbornz.net\/amy\/?p=6063"},"modified":"2012-03-12T13:48:37","modified_gmt":"2012-03-12T20:48:37","slug":"i-get-by-with-a-little-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/osbornz.net\/amy\/?p=6063","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I get by with a little help&#8230;&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not good at asking for help. In fact, there have been times when help was offered and I was too prideful to accept the help. But I&#8217;ve been having more and more debilitating headaches. It was affecting every part of my life. So Eric and I took some time to figure out what could change and what needed to stay the same.  <\/p>\n<p>Now #3 son is going to the local neighborhood school and getting some services he needed that our charter school could not provide.  Our daughter is enrolled in afternoon preschool and in a few weeks will be evaluated to see if she is still on target developmentally or if she might benefit from some therapies. Also, we have a local woman coming in for 2 hours a week to clean.  I keep a pretty clean house but knowing that Debbie will clean the floors on Monday allows me to do other things for my family.  We won&#8217;t always have the money to do this, but we do now and I&#8217;m so thankful!  <\/p>\n<p>I will admit, it was hard to make these changes. I wanted to be able to do it all on my own.  But it was too much and I was starting to suffer from it. Now I have a few more minutes in my day &#8230; Minutes I can use to kiss my husband, help one of my kids with their schoolwork, share my thoughts here on this blog again, HAVE complete thoughts again, and just breathe! <\/p>\n<p>Lord, help me to be thankful for the peace when it comes and to accept the help when offered! 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