It’s been 6 days since I got stuck on J3’s socks.  I can not find anything to help me understand what I’m doing wrong – so I’m giving up!  I’m going to use Knitty’s “Universal Toe-up Sock Pattern” with a short row heel and be done with it!  I just want to get it done now and if he’s got big roomy heels – who cares?!?!  (well, I do – but as I already said – I’m giving up)